Monday, May 6, 2013

introduction :) the story of my life--the summary



Hi! I already have lots of blogs bit I forgot to write my introduction. There’s so much to tell about myself and I still haven’t decided if I’m gonna write it. Well, I’ll decide while I’m on the process of writing.

Because this is a public blog (though it looked more like a private blog because no one reads it other than me) I’ll have this way of introduction. I’m Kirigaya Hoshiko, a graduate from a non-prestigious university, but it has its reputation on its name with a degree of a respected course that involves children, parents, teeners and lots of paper works.
I’m a person with contrasting personalities… sometimes my alter ego’s superior to me especially at night. How come I have such kind of personality? Well, I like things and sometimes dislike them. Or should I say it’s not a matter of liking or disliking something, it’s just that I’m not in the mood to like or dislike something. Well, I love colourful things! They are very lively, very cheerful and it lifts my spirit up. I feel like colors bring out something in me but despite of it, I love dark and weird colors. Something’s so mysterious about them. They feel so unique and strong. I also like cute things—things that little children used to like. They bring out my childish side and I also love weird stuffs like skeletons and hairy stuff toys like makkuro-kurosuke. I like the sound of people chatting, laughing like there’s no tomorrow, I like the liveliness of the environment but when the sun goes down and darkness filled the sky, I like to be alone and be with myself. That is the moment when random thoughts attack.
Most people say that I’m such a very friendly creature and smile never left me. A very talkative girl with so many stories to tell. A girl who loves adventure and love to try new things. Not because this is my own blog, I can tell lies to flatter myself, na-ah! I don’t like that. And this is the truth. I am not a pretty girl, not talented either. I am not attractive or special in any way. I am just ordinary, simple and never stand out in things I do. Some people say I’m weird, other say I’m the usual type of person. Actually, I never see any uniqueness in me. I know it may sound a little self-pity but that is the truth. I am a little boyish and I don’t like too much girls’ stuff like dresses and make ups and the like but when the mood strikes me, I tell you, I love dressing up.
I may not look like it but honestly, I am a shy girl and I can’t stand it in front may many eyes staring at me. It really freaks the hell out of me! But I am used to be with different people. I can stand in front of them but not in too much crowd. For sure I’ll shiver my knees out there! Ha ha ha. I think I was born with that kind of ability, to be adaptive and flexible no matter what the situations are (one of my special friend once told me I’m like a chameleon).
I enjoy my life with family and friends. They are my top priorities. First, family, second friends. My family is the best group I ever had. We may not be like the usual “tropa” but being with them I can be the me with my friends. Whenever I am not with my family, then you can find me loitering around others houses :] I used to gatecrash my friend’s houses. Whenever I don’t feel like going home or i wanted to sleep on others houses, I’ll just drag my stuffs and run to them and I’m settled. Most of my friends’ families know me and liked me for the reasons I don’t know but of course, you can’t please everybody. I can’t make myself be liked by everyone. If they don’t like me… that’s fine. I’m well aware of that. At first, of course, being immature, it bothered me and I want them to like me. I want to have their trust but soon I realized that I did nothing to make them dislike me and it didn’t bother me at all now. I can’t force them to like me. If they see me as bad influence to their child, so be it. I don’t give a damn care! Especially when that time! That single moment when i feel like a creature banned to enter their house. I felt I am not truly welcome there and so I left. I’m not that insensitive.
School life :]
My life during elementary days was fun. I was a kid and most of I time, I played, like what kids usually do. Vague memories of elementary days remained in my head. I don’t seem to remember so often since I haven’t got in touch with them. During those days, I didn’t have a thought of making my days a memorable one. Everyday is like the other days. School, friends, play—that’s it for a kid without any mind on treasuring the fresh days. So then go to my high school life this period of my life was the best. Almost every moment’s a treasure. Every laughter, every conversation, every little detail of it was carved in my memory. I was really happy back then. The school, the classrooms, the classmates, we were the worst class but damn—it was the best memory!! This was the time where we all changed and got matured but naturally, we were still kids. My days in high school were full of memories and friendship. I never regretted I attended that school. When I was about to enter my college years, of course, I was damn afraid. I was really shaking and sweats poured out of me so early in the morning. My heart beats like I run a hundred miles and my head was foggy. I know I sounded a little over-exaggerated but it was the truth. I was like that because it was my first time to set foot on a big university ( it looks really big when I saw it the first time, but as soon as I got used to it, I feel bored ha ha ha). My elementary and high school in the province were not that big and a little unpopulated that’s why I was shocked. This period of my life, I guess, was the season of great changes and I was in a complete disaster. My mind and heart never moved as one. I wanted to do so much things but something’s preventing me from doing it. I have so many regrets that I can blame no one but myself. College days seemed to pass by slowly and I got bored about the monotonous life. I feel like all my adventurous spirits left me. My consciousness tremble inside me. I was not me. And the real me was nowhere to be found. The rage of my power was unsatisfied with what I did. I feel like I know I can do more, I can do a lot of things but did nothing. There are so many reasons but in the end, all the blame will end up in me. I hold myself back to do the things I want because if I continue doing it, I might miss the flow of the river. And I was afraid. Years passed and I stay the same while everyone changed. Yeah, I guess I changed too, but I changed for the worse. I wasn’t able to lift myself up. Something’s missing and I need to find it so that I can fix myself. But until this time, I don’t know what I’m missing. Until now, I can’t revive the equilibrium of my life.
When I entered my last year of college, a lot of things happened—unexpected things. But they just come and go and never stayed for long. Of course, as my immaturity strikes, I had high hopes of making him stay but he never did, so why keep running after someone who doesn’t want you. Don’t wait until someone calls you STUPID for the things you did. That’s what I learned.
I guess since then, I changed again-for worst. Maybe I was really hurt. I was so absorbed by my little world of hopeless, romantic fantasy. I was hurt and I guess I never cried more than once. it’s hard to cry secretly, bearing all the pain, damn that’s so painful but that’s what I did. Alone, in the darkness, tears I shed were more than I thought I can produce. I wonder that time how much water was left inside my body. After that, I hated the days I shed tears. I felt like it wasn’t me. It wasn’t the usual me. I told myself I don’t ever wanna cry over that stuff again!
At present, I’m still in search for a job and of course praying that I’ll find one soon. I don’t really like staying at home 24/7. I’m gonna be sick if I do that. I swear! I got bored easily especially when I got no books beside me. Of course, books of my favourite author. Also, I got bored and tired of the daily routine, doing it over and over again, daily.
Well, as far as this blog goes, I guess this is my summary of my somehow complicated life. I told you, there’s so many to tell but none of it has any substance. Nothing is worth reading. Maybe I’ll tell you more about me sooner or later. . . YOU?—what the hell was that?! Hahah You is Me and Me is You. I am the avid fan of my blog! YEY!
So… having this blog really is a great outlet for me. Having all this stupid, random thoughts bugging inside my head, swear, I can’t sleep at all. I’ll go crazy if I didn’t let this out. All my screws gonna loose!
Thank you for wasting your time reading this nonsense blog! I hope you find it annoying and never visit this blog again. I thank you BOW!!

15 april 2013
01:34

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